What are you talking there about? I dont need to look up anyone to know who is writing me. If some one message me and I open it I can see his name and picture and of course the text. As far ar insults on facebook I have never recieved any of them in the facebook or never heard any of my friends have recieved. They have posted few times my link in the chat and in the forum saying that they will do it but it has never happened. I am not hiding of course when they asked the link I gave it to them self and I have to say I dont even care if they did.